Lesson Plan: Gender Identity and PronounsGrade: Adaptable for K-3 Subject: ELA / Social Studies / PHE
Suggested prior lesson: Expanding Notions of Gender in Early Primary
Rationale
Storybooks are an excellent way to learn about ourselves as well as the world around us. By incorporating books with gender-diverse characters in the classroom,
students will appreciate the gender spectrum, fluidity, and the use of gender pronouns. Students who
do not identify within a rigid gender binary or with the
gender they were assigned at birth may feel validated by seeing their lived experience respectfully represented in the classroom.
Everyone has a unique story to share. Stories help us learn about ourselves, our families, and other people. Curiosity and wonder leads us to new discoveries about ourselves and the world around us. By reading 10,000 Dresses, we build personal and social competency, respect for difference and acknowledgement of gender diversity and gender identity.
Student Objectives
Students will be able to comprehend and connect with the story through reading, listening, and viewing.
Students will begin to develop an understanding of gender identity. Students will engage as listeners, viewers and readers to develop an understanding of the use of gender pronouns, “she”, “he”, and
“they.” Students will begin to appreciate that when we use a person’s correct gender pronouns, we respect that person and validate their gender identity. Using the role-play activity, students will be able to draw connections based on prior knowledge, comprehend various elements within the story, and draw connections between the story and the world around them.
Teacher Notes
Discussions and role-play activity should take place during one lesson
See part 2 for worksheet activities to take place on a separate day
Read-Aloud: 20 minutes
1. Prior to reading the story, ask students to make some predictions based on the cover and title of the story and to keep things in the back of their minds for discussion and worksheets afterwards
Ask students, “Based on the cover, what do we think we know about Bailey?” If the students make guesses about gender, ask what clues they are using.
2. Read the story as a class
a) During the read-aloud possible questions to ask students:
(At various points in the story) How do you think Bailey is feeling right now?
If you were Bailey’s friend, what would you say to her?
What do you think Bailey should do?
Discussion: 15-20 minutes
1) Have these sentences pre-written on the board or chart paper. “Bailey loved the dress with all her heart.” “She went to find her mother.” Show students the page, then show and read the sentences and ask what clues tell us that Bailey is a girl. Discuss how pronouns help us to talk without saying a person’s name over and over. Think of some other examples with students.
2) Turn to page 9.
Explain to students that this is a really interesting page because Bailey’s mom says that Bailey is a boy. A little while later,
Bailey’s father and brother also call her a boy. Ask students:
Why do you think they do that?
What do you think it means when Bailey says she “doesn’t feel like a boy”?
Role Play Extension
Explain role-play pronoun activity with students as a group. Each student will get a piece of paper with a person’s name and pronoun. As students walk around the classroom,
everyone will take turns introducing themselves and asking each other what their name and pronouns are (based on their cards). To demonstrate, the teacher will choose a student volunteer and each take a name/pronoun card.
Teacher: Hi, what is your name?
Student (reading from card): My name is Alex (for example).
Teacher: Nice to meet you, Alex. Do you want me to call you he, she, or they?
Student:
Please call me they.
Take this opportunity to see if students have any questions.
Student Activity: 5 minutes
Hand out name/pronoun cards (try not to use familiar student names) to students and ask everybody to walk around the classroom and introduce themselves/ask each other what their names are and what pronouns they should use (based on the cards). Remind them that in this game we’re pretending to be other people and not ourselves. If students start to get silly or act out gender stereotypes (based on their card) take this as an opportunity to discuss this – for example, explaining how acting out a specific group of people or particular person in an exaggerated way isn’t real and can be hurtful.
Student Activity: 30 minutes
After reading the story, ask students to work on worksheet(s). Worksheets may be spread out over many lessons or used as teacher sees fit:
Ask students to design (using crayons or pencil crayons) a dress for Bailey, using elements from the story and other outside knowledge. Discourage students from drastically altering Bailey’s appearance (i.e. do not “make her into a boy” or overtly change her hair or physical appearance). Should this occur, begin a group discussion on respecting Bailey by designing a dress that she would like.
Discussion may also lead to gender fluidity – boys and girls do not look, behave, or feel just one certain way. “Bailey is/can/feels”, “I see, I think, I wonder…” and “Predicting character feelings” asks students to draw upon their predictions prior to reading the story, thoughts and curiosities while reading the story, and any conclusions, lingering thoughts, or future predictions after the story.